back “home” from Asia
Posted in Personal thoughts on January 4th, 2007For the last 3 weeks, James and I have been in Korea visiting family. My long absence made me a stranger in my own land. Serendipitously, on my way to the airport, I was listening to Alice Walker’s interview on KPFA who said that Korea was a defacto U.S. colony. I thought it was an interesting perspective and sadly within a few days in Korea I understood what she meant.
Walking though Seoul I found that Starbucks and misspelled English signs were all over the place (James thought he could make $$ correcting signage
). I can see that the desire to be like “U.S”. has permeated the Korean culture; consumerism has become the primary force in the society. and plastic surgery to make eyes more “western” has become an everyday occurrence — Alice Walker told an anecdote about an entire graduating high school class being given eye surgery by their parents! It seems like plastic surgery is seen as something like going to a movie or shopping. Using whatever possible means parents are dying to send their kids to the U.S or other western countries for “better education.” Many of my relatives told me that they were ever grateful for U.S.’s help during Korean War.
I’ve been longing for home — familiarity, hustle and bustle of family gatherings, and was happy to be there. For a few weeks, at least I didn’t need to worry about communicating with others and making mistakes or being misunderstood by others because of my lack of language or cultural reasons. However, it hurts to see my people are losing a sense of history of struggle for democracy and freedom. It doesn’t require the presence of a military force to be colonized (although there is a large US military presence in Korea!); rather, it takes annihilation of history, culture and normalizing the history of oppressors.
Despite the grim reality, I try to believe that no matter how massive the oppression is there is always resistance taking place. In a bitter cold winter, I saw in a crowded shopping area of Taegu a group of middle aged-women holding signs saying “fight against sexual assault” and medical students holding signs informing citizens about the negative affects of the free trade agreement (FTA) on Korean traditional medicine (we also saw these students in Seoul and Taejon!). Maybe the reality is not as grim as I thought ![]()